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"If you and your prospective partner adopt the principles and skills I describe here, your relationship will be successful - not just for starters, but for the long run."Â Â Â
An indispensable guide for any couple ready to set the foundation for a loving and lasting union.  Â
Committing fully to a loving partnership - a "we" - can be one of the most beautiful and fulfilling experiences you'll ever have. Yet as anyone in a long-term relationship will tell you, it can also be one of the most challenging. Almost half of all first marriages end in divorce, and chances go down from there. So how do you beat the odds?  Â
"All successful long-term relationships are secure relationships," writes psychotherapist Stan Tatkin. "You and your partner take care of each other in a way that ensures you both feel safe, protected, accepted, and secure at all times."Â Â Â
In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You'll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.
PDF We Do Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth True Connection and Enduring Love Audible Audio Edition Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT Matthew Boston Tantor Audio Books
"Dr. Tatkin provides important cutting-edge info and great strategies for couples wanting a more loving, lasting and satisfying relationship. Clear and practical - with minimal jargon!"
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We Do Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth True Connection and Enduring Love Audible Audio Edition Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT Matthew Boston Tantor Audio Books Reviews :
We Do Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth True Connection and Enduring Love Audible Audio Edition Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT Matthew Boston Tantor Audio Books Reviews
- It’s my birthday and I can cry if want to.
Yes it is, and I've spent the morning/afternoon reading this book. I have one question, Mr. Author what if you put us couple therapists out of business over the next ten years or so? I certainly hope you will use the profits gained to set up an early retirement fund for us. What if couples used this book right from the beginning? What if they figured out how to do all the things they currently spend their hard-earned money and time in arduous (albeit, with some of us very rewarding) couples therapy? I have never seen a better guide to how trouble shoot, before trouble appears.
And maybe after that too. This is not a book for just pre-commitment ceremony/weddings. This book could help you see where you went wrong, in your previous relationships or maybe the one you are still in. After you stop banging your head against the wall for not knowing what to prioritize when it might have prevented the divorce, you can still use it to have great conversations with your current partner/spouse.
For those with relationships that work well enough, the book may provide a little tweak, possibly some language for what you already know is needed but couldn’t say as well; or it could help you through a particularly difficult crisis or transition, say to a first child, an empty nest, or the assisted living housing. How could it ever be too late to “we do†and do it well?
This book does much of what good therapists, specialized in couples, would do with a couple, whether in distress or trying to ward it off in the future. It would be valuable for anyone you know who is getting together, moving apart, or facing new difficulties. And for someone alone, it could help them hold in mind what to look for in a future mate, and what to expect to have to be good at to keep them. - I have been a fan of Stan's work for a long time. My husband and I went to one of his workshops after reading Wired for Love and our marriage has been on an upward trajectory ever since. When I saw We Do, I thought I would get it for our nanny when she got engaged. Her relationship background isn't stellar so my hopes were to help her with some of the realities of marriage, without having to actually "give" her advice. The concepts of the wave, anchor and island were incredibly helpful for helping me as I learned to understand the natural differences my husband I share. Watching her with her partner it was easy to see 10 years down the road, they would face some of the same challenges.
It was an early xmas gift, after I read it first, and she called tonight about the eye contact exercise and was happier than I have seen her. Understanding from the beginning the real depth of marriage is so important. I don't know how you accurately convey it or what it will be like when you hit the hard times, but this book works when those things erupt.
Stan's support for couples stands the test of time, regardless of marital arrangement or configuration.
When our nanny gets married in May, I know that the two of them will be on the right track. If you're looking for a gift for someone you care about to say the advice that feels almost impossible to put into simple words, this book is it. I will be gifting this to others as they announce their happy news for many years to come. - Dr. Tatkin provides important cutting-edge info and great strategies for couples wanting a more loving, lasting and satisfying relationship. Clear and practical - with minimal jargon!
- We are reading this together and it has given us the opportunity to talk about things that might not come up in day to day conversation. Common sense advice. A must read for those entering into or even already in a long term relationship.
- In general I find Tatkin’s work a very helpful way to work with couples. My disappointment with this particular book is that he doesn’t address a common problem for older women. While he does briefly address erectile dysfunction as men age, I can’t find a discussion of what menopause means for women and their partners. This is major turn in many many women’s lives and involves a lot more than reduced libido. So many anxieties, worries and for many women a big loss in terms of their experience when they orgasm. Tatkin’s broadened definition of sex is helpful though. Perhaps I ask too much for the book to address this segment of the population.
- An invaluable guide for those doing marital counseling. Goes way beyond the basics to some real issues facing those about to "Tie the knot".
- I love Stan Tatkin’s books both for my relationship, and for my patient’s relationships. I highly recommend all of his books
- I chose this book as a clinician and found it to be as compelling to me personally. Although I have been married for 45 years, I am still learning how to love effectively. This book helped me in both areas of !y life.
